What do YOU do?

[No_More_Dodo]

You know NMD
B just said the same thing, A lot of this crap I should box up and give to him! Its a bit of a burden,I am sure he will toss it, but if i didnt toss it, I'd feel better.

Think I'll just keep the very special items like Lis said box them up and the other stuff, goes bye bye!

Thanks guys!

KarenMarieS,

I have to admit... I included personal mementos in the very first round of boxes.... It really pushed her buttons... She sent me an angry e-mail....... So, I decided to be sweet and loving and send her all of the personal momentos.... I packed them in supply boxes sent to my new W's old job in Fresno... Just so she would keep my new W in mind... I just remembered her saying

If I EVER regret divorcing you, I WILL get over it!

I thought.... Based on her previous e-mail, she was not getting over it quickly enough.... I will test her theory again.... I know..... I should not have attempted to push her buttons.... But, it was very fun........

NMD

[Iwondertooo]

K, I have some boxes in the house and stuff goes into those if I can't decide. At this point there isn't much but still a pain. But I decided keeping something is useful. I may get past that ine of these days. Wonder

[Trip]

None of our stuff is in my closet so that's no problem. Most everything else is packed away in some boxes in my basement. Really, there isn't all that much in the first place.

[ALL6785]

Happy Friday Karen! Woo Hoo!

[*KS*Chick*]

Ok so I am on a organizing, cleaning frenzy,

My closet is a mess! It shouldnt be its a decent , but not large walk in, thought 12 yrs ago when I moved here it was HUMONGEOUS!(SP??) well it has shrunk!

So getting rid of everything!
And lo and behold if I have not come across , still after 6 yrs "things" ya know the things.
for instance, this very nice hand painted plate
pic of a bride and groom, and me and Ex name and the date.
NO one can use it, cant good will it, soooo do i just toss it?

I actually found matches from our wedding! remember those days? lol
and a beautiful brandy sniffer again our name, date, from a dear friend in England. Gosh but its so hard to throw out but, what do you do??

If I had a D i would think she'd like them, boys dont seem as , well emotionally attached to this stuff lol
My S just collects shot glasses lol

so I ask if you have a min. WHAT DO YOU DO??

back to work!

I believe you might have the answer under your nose....

[*KS*Chick*]

I should add - mine have all been put up in a tote. I don't open it, etc.

I don't really have feelings towards any of it now - numb perhaps? Still some anger. I am saving them for my Peanut. She can keep what she wants.

[cat03]

hmm, i'm just packing it all up in a box and will put it on a spare room and will give it to the kids one day to do whatever with them

[KarenMarieS]

believe you might have the answer under your nose....

hahahaha touche KS

Wow you guys dragged my old thread up. Yea I gave ex a bunch of pics, of his family, kept a few of ones of Ry and his grandparents for Ry, other then that. Just gave them all. Funny never ever do I get a thanks, or i appreciate this! nope. Do I expect it? guess not lol

[KarenMarieS]

Know whats really harder then pics for me tho?

My mom found the few videos we had of Christmas past, Ry when he was a baby/toddler

Seeing ex in action, us as a family, Christmas morning. wow, I do this stupid thing where I look for clues! lol hellloo it was 20 yrs ago, but ex did say he was never happy, funny he looked happy in the video.

It was bittersweet watching them, Loved seeing Ry a baby again oh why cant they stay like that?? me at 100 lbs oh why cant I stay like that? LOL
and odd seeing and hearing ex w/ us.

lots of memories to overcome.