Been 2 weeks since I moved back home. It has been like a ghost town in the house... It's kinda scary. We have said about 2 sentences to each other the whole time. She comes home from work, watches T.V., I may sit down for about 10 min on the other couch and then away I go to my room. My wife never has been the one to open up a conversation, so I'm wondering if I should initiate some dialogue. Just about everything I have said or done has been misinterpreted as "fake" and an attempt to win her back. I don't want to appear that I am pursuing her at all, or have any other motives other than to be a friend who has "gotten a life". On the other hand, I don't want her to think that I no longer have interest in reconciling either. What are some good things to say that may not appear pursuing, but will get her to at least acknowledge my presence?

Thanks.


Me: 31
W: 34
D: 7

Together: 13 yrs.
Married: 7/19/97 :11 yrs

Bomb: 3/07
1st separation: 3/07
Back together: 4/07
Best 6 months of our life 4/07-2/08
2nd bomb: 3/08
separated again: 5/08
Moved back in against her wishes: 8/3/08