That is weird Trusting. Next time he stops by I would just say h btw your checks arrived and hand them to him and say nothing else.

I am sure he will say something at that time if he wants to. You never know why he may have had them sent there.

I forget does your h live with ow or does she have her own place?

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

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