Start something, take the lead, make sure he knows how important he is to you.
I've been thinking about this Phoenix. It's funny how hard it is to break out of routine and come up with something new, but I think I have an idea and will try to implement this weekend. I try to make a lot of effort to show him how important he is to me, and I tell him often.
Hope things are settling for you--how are you doing? I'm headed to the T today and will be sending prayers your way.
