Lots of winking and nudging lately, but you don't really want details do you? I'm not a kiss and teller, and also don't want to flaunt my good fortune. I will say that W has been very affectionate and very giving while ML. I think she has noticed something from me in return - she said last night "Are you on Viagra or something?" I replied "Don't need to be, you are my Viagra." She liked that answer.
Me45 W35 M6 T8 D16 SD11 D0 Dec 07: Bomb July 08: Busted! Thread
How is the marriage counseling and counseling going? Balancing the two girls, your marriage and the interactions between the four of you is a task and a half! Are you still reveling in the wonder of finding each other anew or (and) figuring out how to manage what was always toughest.. blending the two families together?
I'm so happy for your happiness and what you share with your wife.. and still coming back and being our pal.
just been catching up on your whole sitch I'm gald its all going in in right direction.
Although it's been big rollercoaster I could see that your M was salvageable right at the outset.
Originally Posted By: Lanzo (01/18/08)
I just wanted to repeat what I said in my first post, and to add that its still all in your own hands. Don't chase and look for signs, your W will come to you if you're doing the right things, and it looks as though you are.
Lanzo! A blast from the past, and an "I told you" so all rolled into one - too bad at that time I was too messed up to hear what you were saying and too clueless to do what you suggested. But when you are right, you are right. Lan, and also Kalni, ms imp, and smw - thanks for stopping by and for the encouragement..
Kathleen, the blending of the family (or lack of blending, as it were) is the hot C topic these days. Obviously there are no quick fixes, but we are learning to understand how the girls perceive things better, and more importantly how to work cooperatively with their difficulties. Feeling more like a team in dealing with the girls is enhancing our new wonder with each other (to paraphrase you), but we clearly have a lot of work there. Thanks for asking.
Me45 W35 M6 T8 D16 SD11 D0 Dec 07: Bomb July 08: Busted! Thread
Congrats on your current sitch. Little confused though... I'll admit that I was just skimming through parts of your threads. It's hard to follow cause of all the side conversations but that's cool if it;s inspiring a lot of people.
Question - Are you divorced now? I know the first post in this thread said that your Dday was the past monday and then your W did a 180. Did she back out of the divorce at the last minute or did it go through and you are just now reconnected? Your W was with the OM and then just did a 180 and jumped back to you?
- Scott
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