know what bothers me (probably not related - or maybe it is...)....
I have this friend (no really, I do ) and she's been divo about 8 months now. She's just really struggling and I get that, but she's losing her standards...or maybe she didn't have too high standards considering her ex. Sleeping with people (same guys), not demanding any kind of respect for herself....she even told this fella that she's fine with them being * buddies.
I'm not judging - I guess I'm just sad for her and I don't get it and I guess I'm not feeling like it's my place to say anything. I think she's justified it all to herself because of the "cycle" she's in with grieving - according to her therapist.
I just feel like she's going to wake up and go wow, why did I do all that?
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
) and she's been divo about 8 months now. She's just really struggling and I get that, but she's losing her standards...or maybe she didn't have too high standards considering her ex. Sleeping with people (same guys), not demanding any kind of respect for herself....she even told this fella that she's fine with them being * buddies. 
