Oh and BTW~ I am really focusing on me and the SL is doing well. I am feeling more like me these past few days in tthat arena anyway.
Really just doing what I want to him. Taking him as DQ says and not really asking questions or worrying so much.It has just sort of blossomed this week. If I want to unzip him and take him I have been. He is always tired but then I try again later and he is ok with it.
The R~ I am not worrying too much about it either. I am trying to stay in the moment and enjoy it regardless of his outbursts.
