I am ready to let OW go. Let the anger, the bitterness, the raw hurt go. I admit I would be feeling VERY different if she was still with H. But I am tired of worrying about seeing her, and blaming her. I have shifted. This time last year, I blamed her more, which isn't fair, since she didn't owe me anything (even if she was my friend). H owed me the loyalty. I blame him more now for the A than I do her.
You are really something. I don't even feel anything close to that about OM. True, he did't owe me any loyalty, but I can't forgive anyone who would pursue a R with someone who is already in a committed R, let alone someone who is M'd. You continue to be a role model for us all.
Me45 W35 M6 T8 D16 SD11 D0 Dec 07: Bomb July 08: Busted! Thread
