"Don't worry Christa.....this is just the way Forrest and I are.....we have a communication problem"
Nah.. no communication problem.
"Okay, Forrest, this is where we run into a problem like we've had in the past. Are you saying that you are quoting something I have said to Christa? B/c I went back to look those quotes up....b/c I knew it did not sound like me....and sure enough it was not me that said it."
You have to look at my post as a complete thought.. with lots of peoples input. I went back and read all the stuff.. from the last time I posted. Remember.. you said I think alot.. and I do. My schedule requires me to digest a ton of info.. from a lot of posts.. and I have to break them down as quickly as I can. Or you can just call me lazy. Either way.. its the way I think.
So.. again.. glad you are here Sandi2.
Ok.. so the "" indicate a thought from someone else here.
After that you will find my thought.. with no "".
So on and so on.
Continuing... has the first 9 statements in ""
With my thoughts following.
10 and 11 are from you.
Taken from this paragraph....
Originally Posted By: sandi2
I still wonder if he is reacting to the "fear" he sees in you reacting from his anger.....if he has never physically hurt you, then that would probably make him angry that you would be "afraid" of him when you never took anything off anyone else. Plus, his ego was very bruised when you WA, and I think it takes some men a very long time to get over being angry from that. I'm sure I've already said this, but I think some of his "acting out" has been a result of his bruised ego and anger. However, it does seem that after all this time, he would be cooling down a bit. Still playing therapist here.
"I still wonder if he is reacting to the "fear" he sees in you reacting from his anger."
"and I think it takes some men a very long time to get over being angry from that"
Sandi2.. please understand.. I love who you are. I appreciate.. who you are. What I am about to say.. is not meant to hurt you in any way.
I was over anything Sandi2 said to me... along time ago. I was waiting on her. I was over it the second I wrote out my response to her.. way back.
Please Sandi2.. do not take this the wrong way. I am glad you are here.. I need you here.. It is a example of how things can linger.. when two people.. just don't get each other.
Ok.. this is the part I responded to. Christa was here (db.com) for the "Drama" starting event. So she and you both could understand the reference. I said something.. you responded.. I did not like it. My point was.. the second I started typing out my letter to you.. I was over it. If I did not care about who you were.. or want you to "see" my point of view.. there would have never been a response. Call it my reaching out.. even if it does not make sense.
If I need to explain more.. let me know. Just say.. Forrest.. I don't understand. I know where to find you.
A DAM will show a TCB (Woman) where she is wrong. In the hopes that the woman.. gets it and understands. Women are smarter then Men.. aren't they?
So.. lets get this going...
How do we "Push the Envelope"? and get a response from the DAM in Christa's life?
I need a response.. in order to understand where he is.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
He's nowhere...haven't heard from him since sat. Nite at "our place" when I sent him about oh shal we say ten drunk texts 2 of which had pics of me in them...his response was simple "what's up"...so need some help with where to go from here!!!
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"
Oh God! I'm so confused! Oh well, as long as Christa knows what you are saying Forrest, it's okay with me.
Hey, you actually used a block quote! That really helps me to keep up with what is being said by whom.
Anyway, don't really know what all you meant, but I'm not upset or anything......but that post I was referring to was from another person you quoted. This one in the block....I did say. Anyway.....it's not important. Just kind of drives me a little crazy, that's all. (lol) We are here for Christa and she is the one with the great sense of humor and I pray she never loses it. I like this girl!
Peace, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
Sandi~ Thanks for diggin my humorous side...it's what keeps me going!!
I'm going to send another picture and text tomorrow from my first day of school to the H...hopefully it won't stir up too much drama!! Will keep you posted!
hugs 2 you all christa
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"
So.. give her some stuff that will help her get her.. H's attention.
I thought we were waiting for you to do that. I was playing therapist. I thought you were going to think of a game plan. Okay, well......hummmmm. I'll have to get back on that.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
So I started school today....wow!! Overwhelming....I think may be an understatement LOL!!! Now trying to find time to work, go to school...get the H's attention!!! this ought to be good!!
OK, I need the therapist and the men to get their game face on...and figure out how we are going to get the H's attention!!!
I sent him a picture text of me in front of school today....we shall see!!
off to a family reunion...and I'm dead tired....and another family reunion tomorrow! It's going to be a long weekend!!!
Hugs 2 you all Christa
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"
FG~ Found out where he's working....ran into a good friend of his at work today....he's renovating part of my building(the friend) so i asked him....he gave it up!!! this def. helps!!! I like the ideas of card on the truck with a silly toy....hehehe!! I also like the food idea!! These are things that are def. doable! i could always send pizza delivery to his work....that would surprise him!
His friend who I ran into, asked...are you to just going to work it out already....i said talk to your friend....it's in his hands! He was trying to sell the H to me..."he's a good guy, he works hard, stays home now, doesn't go out and party any more." I was thinking to myself....wow, why is he trying to sell my H to me....this is weird! I just went with it, smiled and nodded, and said i know how i left was wrong; and a crappy thing to do...but i needed to grow up a little. He just smiled and shook his head....and tried selling the H a little more! It was kind of ironic really!
Guess time will tell!
need to send a random text! think tonights will be ran into your buddy "x"...can't believe he remembered me!
I'm supposed to be writing a paper for school....i'm not getting very far!
christa
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"
"His friend who I ran into, asked...are you to just going to work it out already"
Us misguided people.. just say what we think. We don't know the background of why it all happened.. we just tend to see.. the person we are talking too.. is missing something.
"I was thinking to myself....wow, why is he trying to sell my H to me....this is weird! I just went with it, smiled and nodded, and said i know how i left was wrong; and a crappy thing to do...but i needed to grow up a little. He just smiled and shook his head....and tried selling the H a little more! It was kind of ironic really!"
I am kinda doing the same thing. Nodding and Smiling.
Did you miss the part.. about H is still talking about you?
You gave that guy.. Too Much Info.
If you would have said "What do I need to do.. run around naked".. he would have said "Yes".
or
He might have said.. "You need to fix that nasty pool."
"think tonight's will be ran into your buddy "x"...can't believe he remembered me!"
Modify...
Ran into your buddy "x".. can't believe he remembered us!
That will Cornfuse the hel* out of him.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
That really helps me to keep up with what is being said by whom. 
LOL!!! Now trying to find time to work, go to school...get the H's attention!!! this ought to be good!!