We also agreed to open access to them, if he wants to see them at any time during the week. He can call if I am available. He has not utilized that at all. I think that that is very sad for them!
I don't get why he wouldn't take advantage of this.....it is sad. At this age the paretns should be involved with their kids lives in some form almost on a daily basis (even if it is to tuck them in). My W had a friend that separated and her H would come over and read the kids a good night story and then leave (sometimes he would stay a little bit and they would talk). They were twins the same age as ours. It is good he thanked you for asking. Maybe next time, or perhaps he might try to return the offer on his weekend. Why do you think he hasn't asked to see the girls aside from the time set aside for him. Is it awkwardness? Is it not wanting the responsibility?
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Isn't it funny who he turns to in a crisis.
This is a good thing. Is this the first time this has happened or has it been happening all along since the sep?
As far as the ring goes. It is pretty much a personal preference. If you want to wear it, then by all means wear it! There are no rules here. If it causes you pain then take it off if yuo want to. If it gives youhope then keep it on. If you feel it is a symbol of your commitment to make your M work then keep it on.
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
