this is the most absurd situation I have heard of, you have no rights, but must sell the house and bear the cost of preparing it for sale, your W has the right to call all the shots with visitation, hate to say it but something is very very wrong with this picture.
Before you get outraged, that site is ironic. The point is, this is a formula. It's like the West Coast Offense. Plenty of lawyers know how to run it now. False Allegations. Trumped up charges. Restricted access to children. That's life. Sucks to be a man in a contested divorce.
Anyone who thinks family law is "Fair" is naive.
Yes, I speak from experience.
M 43 S14 S13 D11 D7 Divorce final: Jan 2009 Making it up as I go....