Originally Posted By: bizarre
this is the most absurd situation I have heard of, you have no rights, but must sell the house and bear the cost of preparing it for sale, your W has the right to call all the shots with visitation, hate to say it but something is very very wrong with this picture.


I hate to be the bearer or bad news, but this is how it goes.
http://realfamilylaw.com/tutorial-for-women-on-effective-use-of-dv-allegations.php

Before you get outraged, that site is ironic. The point is, this is a formula. It's like the West Coast Offense. Plenty of lawyers know how to run it now. False Allegations. Trumped up charges. Restricted access to children. That's life. Sucks to be a man in a contested divorce.

Anyone who thinks family law is "Fair" is naive.

Yes, I speak from experience.


M 43
S14 S13 D11 D7
Divorce final: Jan 2009
Making it up as I go....