How was your night? I'm about to post on my thread about my own, and hope you'll do the same here!
You know to me everything sounds really, really positive. You seem to see each other a lot, and it sounds like he is making an effort in his own Alien husband kind of way. This is good. I guess maybe take the same advice everyone is giving me (even if I don't always follow it!)--try really hard not to talk about R. You have counseling anyway, and since you have this, this gives you the proper venue for those kinds of conversations. Remember our fragile WA spouses can only take limited amounts of relationship talk before they withdraw, get angry, feel guilty etc.
Can't wait to hear about your date!
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
