Trusting, I'm sorry this has to be a worry, too. It is not something you should have to be concerned about.
But if it does come to that, you could welcome him to the funeral as a friend. We have to work on being friends first, even when it is not easy. Not sure how to insist on it minus OW, but it sounds as if you could figure something out.
I don't think my H has asked a single question about any of my family members for months now.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D
Very weird thing happened today. Ex ordered a new box of checks from his bank for himself two days ago and they arrived at my house. His new checks have my address on them.!!!!!!
I am not over analyzing this, it is just weird.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
My Hs tax return form came here for the third year running a couple of days ago. I'm really confused about this as H has definately changed his address at work so why would the tax office send his form here?
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
His last checks had his correct address on them....
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
They both have separate places. Today when ex dropped off the kids, I made sure I was not around. I think I have been too available for him. I did not want to see him anyway. Feeling very down about my sitch and my mother's illness. I never thought I would lose the two most important people in my life - my ex and mother.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
T Im sorry and I do know how hard it is Take time for you I felt the same If only Mom could have stayed, I could have let go of H easier it was so hard to say goodbye to both many times I visited mom while she was sick and I avoided any talks with H couldnt deal with him..too painful with the both of them unavailable I thought I would fold, but im still here wobbly, shaky but trying to get grounded again and I know I will in time
you are a strong woman and you will be ok
so take your time find ways to take care of yourself your ex will still there I go for long walks..it helps peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
