"Don't worry Christa.....this is just the way Forrest and I are.....we have a communication problem"
Nah.. no communication problem.
"Okay, Forrest, this is where we run into a problem like we've had in the past. Are you saying that you are quoting something I have said to Christa? B/c I went back to look those quotes up....b/c I knew it did not sound like me....and sure enough it was not me that said it."
You have to look at my post as a complete thought.. with lots of peoples input. I went back and read all the stuff.. from the last time I posted. Remember.. you said I think alot.. and I do. My schedule requires me to digest a ton of info.. from a lot of posts.. and I have to break them down as quickly as I can. Or you can just call me lazy. Either way.. its the way I think.
So.. again.. glad you are here Sandi2.
Ok.. so the "" indicate a thought from someone else here.
After that you will find my thought.. with no "".
So on and so on.
Continuing... has the first 9 statements in ""
With my thoughts following.
10 and 11 are from you.
Taken from this paragraph....
Originally Posted By: sandi2
I still wonder if he is reacting to the "fear" he sees in you reacting from his anger.....if he has never physically hurt you, then that would probably make him angry that you would be "afraid" of him when you never took anything off anyone else. Plus, his ego was very bruised when you WA, and I think it takes some men a very long time to get over being angry from that. I'm sure I've already said this, but I think some of his "acting out" has been a result of his bruised ego and anger. However, it does seem that after all this time, he would be cooling down a bit. Still playing therapist here.
"I still wonder if he is reacting to the "fear" he sees in you reacting from his anger."
"and I think it takes some men a very long time to get over being angry from that"
Sandi2.. please understand.. I love who you are. I appreciate.. who you are. What I am about to say.. is not meant to hurt you in any way.
I was over anything Sandi2 said to me... along time ago. I was waiting on her. I was over it the second I wrote out my response to her.. way back.
Please Sandi2.. do not take this the wrong way. I am glad you are here.. I need you here.. It is a example of how things can linger.. when two people.. just don't get each other.
Ok.. this is the part I responded to. Christa was here (db.com) for the "Drama" starting event. So she and you both could understand the reference. I said something.. you responded.. I did not like it. My point was.. the second I started typing out my letter to you.. I was over it. If I did not care about who you were.. or want you to "see" my point of view.. there would have never been a response. Call it my reaching out.. even if it does not make sense.
If I need to explain more.. let me know. Just say.. Forrest.. I don't understand. I know where to find you.
A DAM will show a TCB (Woman) where she is wrong. In the hopes that the woman.. gets it and understands. Women are smarter then Men.. aren't they?
So.. lets get this going...
How do we "Push the Envelope"? and get a response from the DAM in Christa's life?
I need a response.. in order to understand where he is.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
