an2m, I know you weren't yelling, neither was I. and read back thru my threads (i know too pathetic) any way as much as I've pursued and all that I've done this stuff too. I just haven't stopped the initiating till now. I'm telling you this sitch is hopeless.

as far as the cake-eating...he pretty much told me that was what he was doing on our camping trip. he said that this is something that he had to do and he was afraid to get the D in case it really wasn't what he wanted. he didn't want to make that mistake. but he ended that conv. with "though we are still going to probably get divorced".


M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!