God give me the patience and the strength...6

[a new 2moro]

I wasnt yelling I was at work.....its in caps...but GOOD...now be busy when he comes to hang out. be doing something in another room.....dare to have plans leave and go to library to read(he doesnt have to know that!!!!) i know you think if hes coming around...its a good sign...hes waking up....NOT, you convince yourself this everytime and then it all blows up.

good to end convo first. now dont answer the phone everytime, dont return every call. The fact you are so needy is a turn off. my guess he is cake -eating big time keeping you on a string drawn in just enough so if ow doesnt work out.....

time means years..not days or weeks....IF you left him alone NC except girls and farm....he "might cook" faster...but that is might. I know that is when my H started to turn around when i went to NC.....he came to our farm to do things, i didnt allow him in the house for about 3 months.