I always ask for reassurance in the same way as you have probably noticed by now. Used to be late at night when both tired, me crying and all that crap. I am hoping to change that now. So far today I have done well!
How did you figure out exactly what your "insecure as hell" zone was? I want to stay out of my send me into emotional meltdown zones!!!!!
I think you are seeing some WONDERFUL positives from your H! I'm jealous, but I think you guys have been working on this a lot longer than David and I have. But at least we have mostly stopped tearing each other apart. Except of course for me yesterday But past history and he says he isn't mad! Taking your advice and trying real hard to accept that at face value! No questioning or saying but what about!
Well, things sound great here and vacation plans sound wonderful!
Oh yeah I know some of David's negative behaviours contributed to the behaviours in me that he says destroyed our M!!! Vicious circle! But changing.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
Used to be late at night when both tired, me crying and all that crap. I am hoping to change that now. So far today I have done well! 
