Starting again...with a Beginner's Mind

[sage]

In my sitch, I should have bite the bullet, even tho I resented the fact that I did have to do most of the R work, and did what I needed to do to make my W feel safe in the M. Unfortunately, I got stuck and thought if I just stayed faithful, it would be ok. She obviously needed more that ILY's and faithfulness to keep it going.

Puck -- remind me...have you read Chapman's "the five love languages"?

All I'm thinking is that you THOUGHT you were conveying love and safety to your w. ...perhaps you weren't speaking her language though. That's my guess from reading your thread.

Sage