I found some yummy cheese!

[pisces9]

that is so sweet LOST! you are right....if he is coming back to me it is bc of how i have been and thats all i need to do. there is nothing more to DO...its just now i have to continue doing it forever! ha ha!

it is true that any issues that he brings to me i can handle better now. i hear anything he has to tell me. that allows him to feel safe and heard. and he will be able to tell me anything and i can take it as it comes. not predict what he may say and just think the best.

i used to get so nbervous about what bad things he had to say to me that i shut him down a lot.

so thats a great gift i have gotten from all this...among many other things!