My H refers to his apartment as the "secret hideout."

What a dork.

And he refers to our house as the "upstate house."

Now he even has the kids calling it the upstate house instead of home.

There was a couple of times that I referred to our house as "home" to him and he corrected me by saying "You mean the upstate house?"

It's painful to hear how detached he is from me sometimes.

Me:35, ex: 36
Sons: 9 & 7
Bomb: July, 2006
Divorced 2009