I know, I don't know how I am going to achieve this BBQ - I don't own a bbq! I shall have to improvise lol! Lola, you are most welcome and Lost you can have the second slice of virtual pie, the first is reserved for Virtually_Handsome as it is his recipe suggestion!
I always thought I was really rational and made perfect sense. I think this had a lot to do with my conviction that I was perfect and right before my DBing days. And whilst I don't think I'm all that a bad a person I do recognise that I have floors and also am also ruled by my emotions and have irrational reactions. I shall try that Lost, thank you. My self-esteem took a big hit this year, it might help.