tipper gave some great points. I was gonna say the same.
The most important word is "ACTION". Guys don't listen, and what you say is so typical of men. Especially overweight men, which makes sense to me that they are going to be more physically exerted and not have the energy to do as much. But they come in ALL shapes and sizes!
On his things, can you just put them in his closet or put them somewhere only HE goes?
oh, I just thought of something...perhaps you should hide a remote inside one of the boxes and in order for him to get it, he has to put 1 box full of things away.... or perhaps you could write a little note that says, "I've got a little surprise for you as soon as that bill is paid off...it has something to do with you, a bikini and a bottle of oil..and I'm not telling who's wearing the bikini."
just be creative. Do you remember when or if he WAS doing what he said he would do? Some guys are just worse than others, but I think we do have more control over it than we think, we just have to get more creative.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
