Twins are the best! You are so right that they are a blessing and I would not be able to get through this without them! My H and I came up with the agreement that he gets the girls every other weekend and one overnight a week. We also agreed to open access to them, if he wants to see them at any time during the week. He can call if I am available. He has not utilized that at all. I think that that is very sad for them!
He responded to my text and as I thought the answer was no. He said that he had already made plans for friday and saturday but thanked me for asking. It is still hard to be rejected. He proceeded to tell me about how the truck has been making noise and he was going to get it checked out.
He called later that day in a panic b/c the truck needed $400 in work done and he did not have the $. He kept saying what am I going to do and then asked if he could borrow from me. I didn't know what else to do so I lent him the money. He called again today and was once again in a frantic b/c they fixed the ac on the truck and it was going to cost $1500 and he was really worried. He was asking for anything just venting to me. Isn't it funny who he turns to in a crisis.
I had another question. I haven't seen many people talk about wedding rings. My H when he first left was wearing it and since June it was off and on. Now he doesn't wear it all. I know it may be small but that just kills me. Should I wear mine or not? He has the girls tonight and was real quick to pick them up gave me a hug before he left.
Me-30 H-30 M-6yrs T-14yrs Twin D's-2 Bomb-1/01/08 Left Home 2/01/08 (rented a room) Back Home 4/02/08 Left Home 5/08/08 (moved into own apt.) OW-21 5/29/08
