Reward good behaviour, don't make a big deal of it but I would let him know you were satisfied and that he was good, if you know what I mean
This is a good idea, and I did do a bit of it. I told him what I told you guys that I couldn't sleep last night out of desire (and fear). I said that I had wanted him so badly, and had been fantasizing about doing just what we did. So, I hope that conveyed that I thought it was good/it was just what I had been hoping for.
It is in the shelter of each other that people live.--Irish proverb
