Quoting sage: not only ARE we both free to leave ...well, it's that freedom that might make it more palatable to stay.
Sage
That was beautifully said Sage, and right on the money for our spouses.
It seems to be scary for us, until we learn/realize/accept we'll be just fine either way also. If we can build our confidence up on that issue, it would be easier to let go of the need of "trying" to control the R.
