Sage: time to time i have been struggling bc the same question as you, yes, after knowing no one is essential for anybody to live happy, the doubt arise in us... sometimes i think in future, in 2 or 3 years in the future, and i am afraid we get on the same mistakes and monotony we were before separation... So, maybe this sacer isnt danger, bc it reminds us to always work on our M...!! and to always work on ourselves to look for some independence and happiness in ourself life..!!... andrea