Just caught up. I can't believe he hasn't called yet after saying he would. That's unlike him isn't it? I remember calling H on not calling once when he said he would. It was important to me to have that boundary.
Have you decided what to do? Did you call him? I'm not sure what the best thing would be. If it was me I wouldn't call, but it would be really hard not to.
I think in terms of saying something to him on Saturday, as I think I posted before, you could try it and see what happens. But do it with no expectations one way or another. I imagine he will respond by citing confusion and needing to sort himself out. Have you thought how you'd respond to the three possible outcomes?
