I realize I have been out of the loop awhile. In some ways on purpose as I found I was spending more time here then living my life. No offense please, my own problem.
Meanwhile, life is going well. It has been well over a year since my H has left. I still get calls and emails from him. He has finally moved in with the OW. Soon after I got a rather odd Birthday Card. I opened to find stickers with quotes. Things like "sorry", "Happy Birthday", and "a battle lost is one that one thinks they have lost". Haven't a clue.
My S is still not speaking to my H. But my S and I have been having a great time.
I have rearranged my whole house to be a work space for my art. Loving that. I have finally joined a gym and cut back on my therapy. Recently I went to Argentina to stay with a friend. Fantastic time.
The divorce still looms before me. Lots of paperwork due to our joint business, which my H is trying to not split with me. Oh well.
I have also cut out of my life tons of old "friends". I found I could no longer deal with dishonest people. Unfortunately, I seemed to have collected quite a few over the years and have found it too draining and emotionally distrissing to sort through lies anymore. Low and behold lots of new people have entered my life that have no problem with honestly or personal responsibility. What a nice breath of fresh air.
Anyway, I do try to read and catch up as much as I can. This site and the people on it have made a major impact on me and helped so much it my healing. So if I am not here day to day, please know you are all in my thoughts even when I don't post.
