Sage,

The nice thing about Retrouvaille (I found) is they have couples presenting that have gone through what a majority of us are experienceing in our lives. They are not proffessionals so it is real life "talks" as they call it from real life ordinary people.

They feed you pretty well so thats a plus too. Most are at local hotels, but ours was at St. Johns Seminary, which was nice too. If you have any questions about it let me know, I would be happy to share all I can. They normally don't tell you much up front about exactly what they do, but thats by design. I think they like to have couples go in without any preconcieved expectations.

BTW-things are going pretty OK w/me thanks to some of your tips.

Have a nice day.

Puck