I just found this thread, was following your other ones so I thought I would check in on you. It does sound like you are doing better now. We all definitely feel your pain, the whole walking on eggshells when around the W does get old, but we have to do it to fight the good fight for our M's and in the end all this work will be worth it.
Take care, and hang in there.
H - 37 (me) W - 34 M - almost 8 years, Dated 6 LYBNILWY - 7/23/2008 W says nothing can save the M - 8/05/2008, 8/17/2008 W admits E attraction with OM - 8/05/2008 no kids - four cats Previous post: What to do
