Congrats on the raise, and you're right -- in today's market, that's a GOOD thing!
Have you made any decisions about what you'd like to do re: emotional and physical closeness with your husband, in light of your current situation?
a) ignore the weekend like nothing happened, and go back to being distant
b) ignore the weekend like nothing happened, and try to stay close emotionally and physically
c) talk to him about the weekend, say it was a mistake, and go back to being distant
d) talk to him about the weekend, say it was nice and desireable, and vow to try to stay close emotionally and physically
e) other??
I'm curious as to what you think. You either need a new plan, or some resolve to get back to the OLD plan, IMHO.
Puppy
Sue,
Just curious, have you given any thought to this? Trying to understand where you are in this gives us some context in trying to help you along your chosen path.
