howdy sage aren't you the popular one these days!!! and well deserved you are doing great!!

I was watching a show the other morning...ok so I was flipping channels and came across a station I will only admit to a few that I have watched (the inspirational channel...oh goodness I've become my mil) there was a woman in the interview who had written a book.."look at it this way", she talked about self pity, needing empathy, forgiveness and a whole lot of other things...I thought of you when I listened to her..of course I'm sure some of it must be religious based but can be applied even without "GOD" if you so desire. it may be worth looking into even though you are doing pretty awesome these days!!!

look at it this way

LL