I don't have a lot of time but I just wanted to say that you should not listen to your family and friends when they say "just get a divorce" you need to make that choice on your own and you do not sound anywhere near ready to go that route. So keep pushing forward and trying as hard as you can. It's not that your friends don't care it's just that they see you in pain and don't understand that a divorce could mess you up even more. So thank them for their imput but don't give up on your marriage until YOU are ready!
Keep reading DR. I've read it like three times and each time I find something new.
