Starting again...with a Beginner's Mind

[sage]

Andrea's new thread gave me some real pointers...

here are a few things that I've been missing:

1. I need to accept and know each day more the new man my h has come to be

Ah, how have I been missing this? I've been appreicative of his actions but I've missed the point that h is doing his own 180s, working on himself and our m. has improved as a result.

What are some of the changes:
h is more verbal -- lots of ILYs
h is more physical, including PDAs!
h is more open about the details of his day
h is more open about his interests
h is more involved in our home -- he cleans, cooks, does errands, makes decisions, all kinds of stuff!
h is more decisive about our lives
h is more open about telling me how he feels
h is more open about telling me what he wants
h asks me more questions than he used to
h gives me advice when I need it
more...

2. Doing things around the house NOW as opposed to waiting

Ya know I'm working on this! This is a biggie to me and to h.

Sage