Sage:
What a great post...!!... i used to post on midlifecrisis forum, even my h and i are working on our M after a secnd separation... Today i passed by this forum, stop on your thread, and you had motivated me to beguin my own journal goals thread... I identify with you in so many points... specially in my need to receive reassurence from him and telling this to him again and again, instead of looking his acts, his working oriented actions...
Thanks sage for inspiring me... good luck, you are doing so great.... and if you can stp in my thread after i post it.... again, thanks for sharing your feelings and tools with us... yes, we need a beguiners mind to really makes our M work...
Andrea

Excuse my english faults, bc i am an spanish girl...