Hi sg, I wasn't insinuating that my way is the only way you'll ever be happy again. Certainly some couples can work through their problems and I wish them all the success in the world. What I found out about my previous marriage however is that it wasn't so much a sex starved marriage as much as it was a loveless marriage. Myself included. I thought I loved her. I did not. I was in love with the idea of what I wanted with her. In retrospect, I didn't know what it felt like to love and to be loved until now.
There is an old Garth Brooks song that talks about thanking god for unanswered prayers. Now I'm not a religious man, but if I had been able to fix my previous marriage I would have never been lucky enough to find my wife.
