Hey Sawks, I think that all of us on the dirty end of the stick will probably go through this at some point. God is probably the only other one who knows how much I vacillate.
I'm going to hijack a bit from Lola's thread and say that your old R is dead and good riddance. But, I would also say to not categorically exclude your W from consideration, and that isn't what I hear you saying. Remember, no matter who you are with, there will be problems. At least here is the devil you know.
The opportunities were always there, but, because you would have to take action to pursue those opportunities, when you were committed to your marriage, they might as well have not existed.
Dan
Dan,
Vacillate, yep that about sums it up! (Good word by the way)
Better the devil you know than the devil you don't know, again that makes sense. The Old R is dead Amen to that! I am not so sure I have completely excluded her yet, but there comes a time when I had to ask myself when do I do that if I do. I have been completely shunned by all of her friends save 2 or 3, do I want to return to the devil I know and have them all look at me like I am an alien?
Fact is the opportunities are there now, and my wife basically told me to flock off, will I pursue them, to an extent, to meet new people and such. How far will I go? I don't know, I do know I am too smart to make bad judgement calls (hopefully).
