gForce, I just spent the last hour reading through your threads and your story. I am in a similar situation and I must say that your progression from emotional mess, to successful DB'ing to strong person ready to move on and looking forward to the future is truly inspiring. That you were able to (so far) successfully turnaround what seemed at many times to be a hopeless situation really is inspiring. I myself and in a stage of comfort where while I want things to work out, I am operating most of the time in an "as if" state of mind. It really is amazing how much better you feel when you have this attitude.

Anyway, I just wanted to respond and say that I hope my sitch turns out like yours for the sake of everyone invovled, especially our 3 kids. But if it doesn't work out, I can see myself looking forward to a new adventure in my life. If you are interested, my thread is at http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1557649
(still trying to figure out how to create a link instead of pasting the whole URL.)
I would appreciate it any advice you could give me and hope you stay in touch!

Thanks.


Married 6 years
D4
D4
S2
seperated: 7/15/08
Dbomb: 9/21/08
status: seperated in same home, meeting with mediator moving toward D
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