That sounds amazing-you are so close and it really sounds like your H is very respectful, doing things slowly, but still sending all the right signals..wine, the hot tub-wow! So he's not ready to stay "yet" which implies he thinks he will be at some point.

Way to go!
ITH


Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!