He doesn't hate you, but he is trying to get you to react.

Don't.

If you react it gives him a "reason" for what he is doing. Kind of like a "see, I knew she was a b!tch! I'm much better off now."

He's looking for a justification for you to be a "bad person" so as to make what he's doing less horrible.

Refuse to give him any ammo.

You may not see any good response for a LONG time. You may not see a good response, EVER, but it will make you feel better to know you took the high road.

Patience. I think it pays off in the end no matter what the outcome.

BFM

Last edited by butterflymom; 08/14/08 04:54 PM.
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