My D18 seems to have sorted herself out with a place at uni still to do a pharmacy course. She's chosen a uni who have yet to gain full accrediation for thier course (b/c it is new) over one that has a 40 year reputation and I've tried to counsel her against that but they are her decisions so cannot do anymore than that. The main reason she doesn't want to go the established uni is b/c it is local. Her actual words were 'I can't wait to get away from this place and if you think I'm going to a uni that would enable me to stay here you've got another think coming!' Even her BF reprimanded her for this. I told him it was ok, it didn't matter how many times she attempted to offend me I only had her best interests at heart. They stayed for all of 10 mins. I thought they had been at the college all of this time but it turns out they had been at BFs mother's house. So I stayed in worrying myself to death (and persuaded my boss to let me have the day off) for nothing really. I'm surplus to requirement


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15