I'm so sorry things have not progressed. It sounds like you are holding yourself together pretty well. When it comes down to it, all that is important right now is making sure your babies are ok. Since he is willing to see a family counselor then get an appointment ASAP. Don't push it to the back burner.
Yes, some of your M stuff will inevitably come up in counseling because it is important for the counselor to understand the dynamic in order to help you parent your kids. That being said, you don't need to tell him that. Let the counselor tell him. That is their area of expertise.
Only you will know when you are done fighting for your M. You can't stand forever without any movement from him, or should I say you shouldn't. You need to live for you. LIVE FOR YOU! Not for your kids, not for the possibility of your M, not for your hopes and dreams of your family.....FOR YOU!
I know, that sounds selfish, doesn't it? It's not. It's self-preservation.
What have you been doing for you?
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
