A lot of times in the beginning of this mess, they will flaunt and/or say things to get your goat which is what he attempted to do.

Next time he says that, throw him way off guard and say, "Great. I hope you have a wonderful time."

He expects you to get defensive but try not to and do the opposite.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19