Ah, SB, you crack me up! I'll likely get to more of it today...h is off working so I'm flying solo!
We had a great night last night...went to the movies and dinner. 3 positives:
1. after the movie, h and I had a great conversation about the film. we did this the other night too. It's weird, it feels like old times, really getting into these kind of discussions! I felt like I was truly on a date.
2. I had picked a new place to eat but I didn't get directions and we couldn't find it. This would have previously sent my h into a semi-fury but last night he was really reassuring and not angry AT ALL. Said as long as he was with me he didn't care where we went!
3. Got some great hugs and ILYs.
4. Got some of my "homework" done. I'm feeling good about that...I definitely think that I can really hone in on the things that aren't going well -- so many things are working, though! the big one is the ASSumptions and interpretations. Gonna work hard on that one!
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.