Hi NG- How did your night without your kids go? It is a huge adjustment to not have them there every night but it will get easier for you. At times it can be nice to have the me time especially when you are having emotional challenges.
I don't know how you didn't talk to your friends about what was going on for all those months. It has to be a good release to be able to finally talk about it. Hopefully they are supportive and understand your position...most people don't understand standing for your M. Be prepared for that.
I agree with peace about the ring. I was angry when I took mine off. I have regreted taking it off but I feel I can't put it back on until my H asks me to. So, think it through and don't do anything out of anger. Wear it if you want to...you are still married. If you feel like what the ring symbolizes is gone and you want to take it off, then take it off. Just do what you feel comfortable with.
I continue to be amazed at your strength...just please make sure you process all of this so you can start to heal.
