Well, I hate to give dating advice to someone who's still married..but dude ease up some. No one wants to be smothered. One text message or one email a day should be enough. Let her breathe. Remember, she's just getting out of a relationship as well.
Pictures are innocent enough. Well, raunchy (one), but innocent.
Ya, I am not so sure she will be happy i posted that one LOL
me and new girl are supposed to be going for supper Saturday, we shall see how it pans out, ball is in her court, and to keep it real , the slower the better.. things went a little quick on the weekend at camping and I should have let it cool down after the weekend.
Have you spoken to her since she wouldn't answer your texts or calls?
Nope,she said she'd call yesterday when she was done sending out resumes (She is looking for a job), but she didn't. No biggy, i sent a text last night just saying have a great night, hope alls well..
This morning i sent her an email asking for her cover letter as i have 2 inside tracks, and then texted her to tell her about the email. No response. I am not worried , whatever.
She is a friend of a really good friend of mine who is having a BBQ next weekend, so eventually i'll see her.
I have bigger things to worry about , like getting size 32 jeans because i dont fit into my 36 's anymore LOL.. i cannot believe i moved 4 pant sizes down in under 3 months
Funny thing, last night I get home from the gym, i am unwinding and w comes home. Chat briefly to make sure the dogs are to be taken care of. I mention condos that are being built beside my work, who is building a new office tower as well. She says " why are you in such a rush to move?" We have some bills to pay. I offer her the house again, saying " can you find a roomate to take over the mortgage with you".. she says no.
LOL.. well let me see, i am tired of coming home and never having visitors because everyone thinks there are fights here, and i don't really think I want any of your friends here anyways because you have thrown me under the bus over and over again with them. I want to move on with things.
Sawks...do you think she is reconsidering, and is that even an option at this point?
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Sawks...do you think she is reconsidering, and is that even an option at this point?
hi ((lola)) btw nice sticking out your tongue picture lol.. The way she said "why are you in such a rush to move into a condo" was almost like " why do you have someone new".. i could be wrong, but it just seemed odd. Do I think she is reconsidering, i can't answer that. Is it an option for me to go back? I am not so sure I want to anymore, all this GAL has opened alot of new roads, I can't answer that. I saw something on FB that she told one of her friends, I refuse to grow up .. I LOL @ that.. i think she is now making excuses for her decision because she is confused about it
That is a definite possiblity. I think sometimes when they see us starting to make changes they are scratching their heads, and then decide that they have to blame it all on us so they can save face.
Glad you liked the pic I may be old but I still know how to keep 'em laughing...
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
That is a definite possiblity. I think sometimes when they see us starting to make changes they are scratching their heads, and then decide that they have to blame it all on us so they can save face.
Glad you liked the pic I may be old but I still know how to keep 'em laughing...
When i said the day she dropped the D word, I'd change, i meant it, i know she heard it before and didn't believe me, but i think she is starting to see I have and am changing more so every day. I wish her the best, but at this point she would have to do some serious DB ing to get me to change my mind. She told me that day "I am done, done." Well now it's my turn, I am a guy who likes affection and attention. I have gotten by without that for nearly 4 months, it has made me very very strong. I am a scorpio, we are also very sexual, (rarrr , lol).. and i have done without that in the same period, also making me quite strong. Now it's my turn to say I am done. People always change their minds, but right now other opportunities have presented themselves, and I may turn out to be just curious, who knows. But I have to think about me.
Hey Sawks, I think that all of us on the dirty end of the stick will probably go through this at some point. God is probably the only other one who knows how much I vacillate.
I'm going to hijack a bit from Lola's thread and say that your old R is dead and good riddance. But, I would also say to not categorically exclude your W from consideration, and that isn't what I hear you saying. Remember, no matter who you are with, there will be problems. At least here is the devil you know.
The opportunities were always there, but, because you would have to take action to pursue those opportunities, when you were committed to your marriage, they might as well have not existed.
I may be old but I still know how to keep 'em laughing...