Hi na, peace and glam-
It feels like we are making real progress but I am afraid to say that because I don't want to get my hopes up.

My H texted me on Monday saying that he was tired (I guess he didn't sleep all that well when he had stayed the night) and wanted to go home but he couldn't because we had C. I told him he could skip C if he wanted to. He said he knew that it meant a lot for him to go. I told him it did but that I didn't want him to go if he didn't want to be there. I know he really didn't want to go but he did end up going. I was amazed that he was able to think about my feelings...that seems like a huge step.
Originally Posted By: glamgirl
I think your h stayed awhile back too if I can recall.
It has been a rare occassion when my H has stayed the night with me...even rarer to sleep in my bed...that was only the 2nd time in over well over a year.

My kids and I are leaving on vacation today. My H came over last night because he wanted to see me before we left...that was very sweet of him because he I know he had an extremely busy day. He actually did end up staying over (on the couch). When he left, I gave him a key to the house and told him he was welcome to come here and stay. I told him I hope he will come by and make himself more comfortable here. We will see.

My H told me last night about how crazy busy work will be for him in the near future. This might keep him from working on our M...I hope not but I have to be prepared for that. Is it possible that someone how has progress as far as my H has to turn around and go back the other way? I guess anything is possible.

I see that my H is continuing to move toward me...little things like holding my hand or even last night he asked me to lay next to him on the couch. \:\) I still sense some resistance from my H on some issues...the biggest seems to be him being completely comfortable at my house. My H made an IC appointment for next week...I am keeping my fingers crossed that he will go.