I Haven't read through your last 6 messages, but wanted to post on this one first. Sometimes I forget what I want to say .
First, thanks for your post on my thread.
But more importantly, I think you made a MAJOR observation tonight...about how H distances himself from people when they are "down".
Very interesting. A few things come to mind: 1) He doesn't know how to respond, what to say, do, feels uncomfortable...maybe there's some of that guy thing in thinking he has to "fix it" somehow??
You know your H best, what do you think??? (Yeah, it's probably 2 posts down )
2) I think it's vital that you see this is a pattern of HIS and thus can externalize A LOT of what you've been internalizing...that it's YOUR flaws, deficiencies etc that are to "blame"
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