KS: I think guys are SLOW to introduce you to their world. They're all fine to become part of yours, but they like to keep their peeps to themselves IMHO
As for the bar guy - DUI = run, don't walk away. I was married to one. So was Frosty. TROUBLE! I mean - who does this????
What I worry about with single guys is that they get so used to being on their own - what do they really want a woman for (ok, besides hooking up)> Some want companionship - that's good. Some want to get married (not many I've met). But many get so comfortable being on their own that they don't really "need" us. But then - who wants a "needy" guy anyway
I honestly think we'd all just love to meet a guy the good old fashioned way - exchanging glances over the zucchini in the produce aisle - or through friends at a gathering. But in reality - what are the chances? And over 40 - who doesn't have baggage these days. It comes down to - how much baggage?
