I don't know what I would have done if you all had not been here for me & are still here.
I know it sounds like my sitch is pretty much over since H married OW, but my heart is still longing for him & I'm not convinced it is 100% over. Maybe it is, right now I'm just trying to keep busy & pray a lot.
Thank you all for being here!!!! You show me there really is hope!
YR I so much want to make it to the other side. You are an inspiration. Thanks for all the encouragement and showing the rest of us it may happen for us one day.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
Good morning YR, It is early over here, I just got back from fishing with S13, we are on vacation in Maine. Last night I was sitting with my Husband, drinking a glass of wine and BBQ-ing. The kids were playing nicely. And I realized that this is what we were fighting for, normalcy. And I realized how very grateful I am to be in this place, a new Season, in a new Marriage. Sending hugs and hoping you are also truly enjoying your Summer.
((((((hugs))))))
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
? YR. In the beginning when all this happened my h would be offended if I called the kids my kids, or my house, or my bedroom. I understood this, but the words just came out. I worked really hard at this and tried to always say our......
I know they are just words. Then of lately h refers to my bedroom etc. He even mentioned yesterday I cleaned "your bedroom". I said you mean our bedroom. No response from him.
Just wondering if your h said any of this or does this mean anything? I know it seems petty, but I am just wondering if the fact he has been gone so long that he couldn't possibly think of ours anymore and he won't be coming home.
Any thoughts?
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
MY H FLIPPED-FLOPPED WITH THOSE KIND OF STATEMENTS.....6 MONTHS BEFORE HE CAME HOME HE REFERRED TO HIS APT W/COW AS "HOME"...THEN IT STARTED TO BE "THE APT" HE ALSO SAID HE LIVED FOR THE TXTS TO HEAR FROM ME...ALL THOSE SILLY TXTS WERE JUST TO HEAR FROM HIM
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
